Exchanging Pledges: Wedding Event Planning Tips And Tricks

Article writer-Vance Iversen

Unless you have a professional chef and a financial planner at your disposal, you need help planning your wedding! From the food, the expenses and the entertainment to a million other details, there is so much to do. Do yourself a favor and read on for some fabulous advice on making your wedding easier, less stressful and of course, one unforgettable party!

Religion is possibly the most influential aspect of any wedding ceremony. Of course, by this time, the two of you should have it worked out how things will operate on that level, but getting the families on the same page may be more difficult.

To document your wedding day the best that you can, make sure that you have a large guest book. This will allow people to write what they are feeling and jot down some of the memories that they had with you. This can be a memorable keepsake for the rest of your life.

Make sure your maid of honor is someone with whom you are really close. Your wedding day is something you will remember for the rest of your life, and you want to make sure your most loved family member or friend is part of that. If you cannot pick who you want your maid of honor to be, just have more bridesmaids.

Make sure that after your wedding you send thank-you notes to all of your guests for not only coming to your wedding but for the gifts that they gave to you. This will make them feel special and show that you appreciated them using their time to share your special moment.

Practice your walk in front of mirrors to feel comfortable on your wedding day. Avoid twisting your ankle as you walk down the aisle by wearing flat, comfortable shoes. Having less than sexy footwear is an easy trade-off for not falling on your derriere!

Between your ceremony and your reception there can be a long down-time for your guests. If they can't be seated at their tables right away, choose a venue that has a bar or lounge available for them to hang out in while they wait for the guests of honor to arrive.




Practice walking down the aisle before the big day. Many brides get nervous when they have never walked down the aisle, which can cause them to trip and fall. Also, if you have young children as ring bearers, make sure they practice before your wedding day, so they know what they are doing.

If your heart is set on a destination wedding, talk to a travel agent to see if you can get a deal for everyone who is attending at a group rate. They are likely to have planned many wedding trips before yours, and will know exactly how to get the best deals possible.

If you are having trouble deciding when to get married, think about tying the knot during the wintertime. Try to plan your wedding around November or January so that you can avoid the high prices during the holidays. This will help to give you an inexpensive wedding that is beautiful too.

Give the children who attend your wedding some responsibility to keep them occupied. If they have to guard the ring with their life, or count how many people come in the doors, they'll have something to do and it should keep the boredom at bay. They may need to have different tasks to keep occupied, though, as they could become tedious.

For a wedding couple who especially enjoy travel, look for opportunities to work travel-inspired elements into the wedding decor. Save-the-date notices and invitations are available in styles that resemble passports, boarding passes or vintage postcards. A vintage leather suitcase can be propped open to display wedding programs, family photos, or favors.

Everything you purchase for your wedding can be negotiated! Wedding dresses are marked up by fifty percent or more. continue reading this should see if you can get a discount on the one you love, or maybe one that has a flaw that they've put away in the back. Even flowers can be bought at a discount if you're not too choosy.

Make a list of all the questions you might want answered when looking at banquet halls for your wedding. This way you can be sure that you will not miss a question once you are there. Since sales reps can sometimes be quick or pressed for time, you might end up forgetting about things you wanted to know. A list of questions will help you keep on track.

When you select your wedding decor, and especially your flowers, do so with the layout of your venue in mind. If you plan an indoor wedding, you can enjoy large, complex floral arrangements. This may not be true outdoors. You might also need special equipment to secure decorations in place for certain venues like beaches and parks.

To save additional resources on your wedding reception, consider using a high quality stereo system instead of hiring a disc jockey. You can place multiple speakers around the dance floor and set the system up with multiple cds as well. Ask a trusted wedding guest to help you man the system.

Choose a wedding ring that is both appropriate for you and your future spouse; diamonds are always popular, but sometimes cliche and very costly. Sterling silver and white gold are more affordable than platinum and shine up just as well. There are many natural gemstones also available that make a great alternative to diamonds and are more affordable. Shop around to make the right decision because this is a ring that you will have for years to come.

When choosing what your first kiss in front of the priest will be think carefully. This kiss will represent your relationship before all that are gathered. Will it be soft, smooth, and compassionate, or will it be wild and risque? Make a decision that fits your taste, and doesn't go overboard with both sets of in-laws watching.

You may want to consider not planning your wedding for a Saturday. There are a lot of weddings planned on Saturdays, normally because most everyone already has the day off. The issue with planning your wedding for that day is that most every church and reception hall is booked far in advance for each Saturday. By changing the day, you may find that the venue you genuinely want is available.

As you can see from the tips provided in the article you just read, a wedding doesn't have to be a complicated or stressful thing. You can use some practical advice, streamline the process, hit every note, and ultimately pull off a simplistic wedding that you can truly make you proud.